When setting up a session. You should be upfront about what you're looking for I'm not a mind reader I offer what I offer in session but it does not mean that everything I have on my list on my advertisement is exactly what will be in session. Your interests are important to me it is important that you at least enjoy the session for as much as you are going to enjoy it! And yes there is usually pain involved! Good in pain and good endorphins this is what gets you through a session. You don't need to worry about what kind of pleasure I get out of it because what I do to you is exactly the pleasure I need. I do a lot of CBT Sounding and Strap on!!
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